And so, I asked one of my closest friend. How does it really feel to be in love. To my surprise, this is exactly what he told me long time ago...
"Do not put any high expectation and do not hold your hope high. Love doesn't last forever.There's no point of staying loyal to one person because you know you will cheat on your partner. It's the nature".
Do you know how many cupids just died when I heard that? I mean... I believe that what he said is the stereotype of what the society think. You know, promiscuous sex with different people all the time. Carefree and do not bother about anything else...
So why constrict yourself to social stigma when you have the ability to change it? Change what the society think of ourselves. Instead of running around like a manwhore, make some effort to change your mindset as well.
Once you've found the true meaning of love, there are many reasons to stay loyal to the only one. If you still can't, then you haven't found love but just lust... Too bad...
I've found love and I'm still learning from it. Is it perfect? No. It it true love? Yes...
So, when I think about it, I was like... Damn, I can't imagine what my friend has been missing in life...
Samantha Jones: Relationships aren't just about being happy. I mean, how often are you happy in your relationship?
Charlotte York: Every day.
Samantha Jones: Every day?
Charlotte York: Well, not all day every day but yes, every day.
Wish everyone all the best in finding love :)
